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Weight Loss Tips And Tricks Short Girls On TikTok Actually Swear By

Petite women have a harder time losing weight, but it’s nowhere near impossible. Here’s what actually works.

By Meredith Evans5 min read
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If you're under 5'4" and trying to lose weight, you're playing the game on hard mode. You probably keep losing and gaining the same 10lbs over and over again, and no, you’re not crazy. Science says smaller frames burn fewer calories at rest. One expert, Craig Primack, M.D., president-elect of the Obesity Medicine Association, says short women have a slower metabolism. “I see women who are shorter than 5 feet with BMRs of 1,200 calories, and some who are 5’10” or so at 1,750 or more per day,” he told Women’s Health. 

Don’t spiral or beat yourself up! You’re not doomed; you just need a different approach. Yes, you can look like a pilates princess at 5’0”. You just need to work smarter and maybe sweat a little more.

Here’s how to lose weight when you’re petite without starving yourself or giving up your will to live.

Muscle Is Your Metabolism’s Best Friend

You don’t need to be a bodybuilder, but strength training can help you build more muscle, which will help with your resting metabolic rate. Just don’t go overboard with the weights and stress your body out; instead, incorporate some strength training along with your Pilates workouts. Maddie Kossin, a “mindset and fat loss” coach on TikTok (who’s 5'1" and maintains her weight at 2,500 calories), says: "The more muscle you have, the more calories you're gonna burn at rest and the more calories you will burn during exercise."

More Steps, Fewer Excuses

Think 10k steps is just TikTok fluff? Think again because the petite girlies swear by it.

One r/PetiteFitness Reddit user wrote, "10k steps a day on top of your regular workout truly makes a huge difference in boosting metabolism. I’ve lost a significant number of lbs eating 1800 calories a day but getting 10k steps (I’m 5’2”, currently 115 lbs)."

And Maddie Kossin backed it up in her video. Your shorter legs mean you have to work harder to cover the same distance as your taller friends. Use that to your advantage. 

Want to take it up a notch? Invest in a weighted vest or ankle weights. 

Protein, Protein, Protein

Protein fills you up and builds muscle. And if you're short, you really need it.

Kossin explained, "You gotta eat your protein every day. Protein is gonna keep you fuller for longer. It's gonna help you grow those muscles, and it's honestly just better for you overall."

Salads, Soups, and Volume Eating Like a Pro

If you're eating tiny portions of calorie-dense food and wondering why you're still hungry, that’s probably keeping you from shedding a few lbs. Kate, a “Fat Loss Over 40” TikToker, said, "One of the best meals you could eat every day as a short woman is a big ass salad… That will get you 57 grams of protein for just 418 calories."

Volume eating means you’re loading up on food that takes up space without racking up calories – think salads, soups, veggies, and low-cal snacks. 

Know Your Triggers and Cut the Crap (Literally)

You don’t need to be a monk, but you do need to be honest about your weaknesses. My weakness is candy and junk food. I’ve cut them out completely. If moderation isn’t working, eliminate the trigger. Some of us just aren’t in the “just one” club, and we have to acknowledge that if we want to reach our fitness goals. 

Get Into Character: The Hot Girl Routine

Another r/PetiteFitness user shared a trick that really helps when you need motivation. "Get into character,” they wrote. “Wear a cute gym outfit, moisturize your skin, wear lip gloss. Try to feel good even if you are just staying home all day. Become who you think is an ideal version of yourself and it may help you make better choices.”

This isn’t being delulu, trust me. If you feel like a healthy girl, you’ll act like one. 

Alcohol: The Sneaky Saboteur

Alcohol can wreck your progress. A standard margarita (approximately 4 ounces) contains around 200-300 calories and up to 20 grams of sugar. Besides the calories, alcohol can interfere with your sleep and reduce recovery. If you’re inebriated, you’ll probably make poor choices when it comes to food.

A couple of drinks on the weekends won’t hurt, but don’t go overboard. 

Don’t Eat Like You’re “Bulking"

Between 1,200 and 1,500 calories may actually be your maintenance level or even a slight deficit, depending on your activity level, especially if you’re petite. Shape.com explains that "Your height is directly related to the amount of calories you burn each day."

So if you're eating 1800+ because you think it's healthy but you're not moving enough to balance it, there’s a big chance you’ll stall. The best way to figure out how much you should actually be eating is to calculate your TDEE, your Total Daily Energy Expenditure. There are free calculators online where you input your height, weight, age, and activity level. It’s not a perfect science, but it gives you a realistic ballpark. Once you know your TDEE, subtract 100–300 calories for fat loss and aim to stay consistent for at least a few weeks before reassessing.

You don’t have as much room for error. With that said, track your intake for a few days – not obsessively, just honestly.  Be more aware of your eating habits. 

Be Ruthless About Liquid Calories

That healthy smoothie might nearly be 500 calories. The iced oat milk latte with two pumps of syrup is a lot more than you think. A little creamer here, a splash there – all of it adds up fast, and short girls don’t have the buffer.

Try to swap out your liquid habits for lower-calorie options. Protein coffee with almond milk, black cold brew, or tea with collagen powder can help you stay fuller for longer without consuming your day’s calories before lunch.

Sleep Like It’s Your Job

Sleep is where your fat loss either happens or doesn’t. If you’re sleeping five hours and waking up stressed, good luck sticking to any plan. Lack of sleep increases ghrelin (your hunger hormone), tanks your willpower, and makes your cravings hit like a freight train. It also messes with your body's ability to recover, especially if you're lifting. 

Give Your Hormones a Fighting Chance

Especially for women with small frames, even a little cortisol spike (from stress, lack of sleep, overtraining) can throw everything off. If your period's gone MIA, your hunger is unpredictable, or your body feels "puffy" even on a clean diet, your hormones might be yelling at you.

Signs you’re doing too much: no hunger in the morning, waking up at 3am, cold hands/feet, super irregular periods, or constant fatigue. That’s your body saying, “I don’t feel safe enough to let go of weight.” You may be dealing with high cortisol levels. 

Try gentle movements like walking or stretching, especially during your luteal and menstrual phases.

Get to bed earlier and incorporate stress-reducing habits, such as journaling or unplugging after dinner. Supplements like magnesium glycinate or L-theanine can help, but nothing beats actual rest. 

Know Your Body and Sync With Your Cycle

The good news is there are ways to fix your hormones. Tracking your menstrual cycle can be extremely helpful. During your follicular phase (right after your period), your body handles strength training and calorie deficits better. In contrast, the luteal phase (roughly two weeks before your period) can come with more cravings, lower energy, disrupted sleep, and a greater need for rest and recovery.

Instead of fighting it, plan around it. Push harder when your body feels energized, and give yourself more food or rest when it doesn't.  

Stop Changing Your Plan Every Week

Petite women often panic if they don’t see progress quickly. However, because your deficit is so small, it may take longer to appear, especially on the scale. Give your routine a minimum of 3–4 consistent weeks before making any changes. Otherwise, you’re just spinning in circles.

Keep taking pictures, tracking measurements, and noting how your clothes fit. Weight isn’t everything, and it especially isn’t accurate in the short term if you’re strength training.

Make Boring Food Taste Good

You don’t need to eat plain chicken and sad spinach every day, but you also can’t expect Chick-fil-A meal hacks to carry you to your goal. Invest in a high-quality air fryer to avoid using seed oils, stock your spice cabinet, prepare protein in bulk, and switch up the flavors daily. Your journey doesn’t have to feel like a punishment.

30/30/30: A Morning Routine That May Help You Burn More Fat

According to Health.com, the 30/30/30 method is a science-backed morning routine designed to support weight loss and improve insulin sensitivity. The idea is simple: eat 30 grams of protein within the first 30 minutes of waking up, then follow it with 30 minutes of steady-state cardio—like walking or light cycling.

This method, originally proposed by Timothy Ferriss and popularized on TikTok by biologist Gary Brecka, has some solid science behind it. Experts say protein at breakfast helps keep blood sugar stable and curbs appetite throughout the day, while low-intensity cardio helps burn fat without stressing your system.

If you’re trying to kickstart your metabolism and need structure in the morning, this could be a great routine to experiment with.

Rewire How You Think About Hunger

Not all hunger is an emergency. Some of it is boredom or blood sugar. When you feel like snacking, try one of these before reaching for food:

  • Go for a 10-minute walk

  • Drink water with electrolytes (LMNT, Ultima, whatever you’ll actually use)

  • Journal what you really want right now (comfort? dopamine?)

  • Brush your teeth or chew gum

  • Drink tea or coffee

Half the time, the urge passes. And if it doesn’t, eat! Just make it intentional, not reactive.

Rest Days Are Non-Negotiable

Overtraining tanks your hormones, ruins your sleep, and makes your body cling to fat like it’s in survival mode. Take some rest days, and you’ll see results.