Relationships

Is It Better To Be Friends First? Here Are The Pros And Cons

There are few things cuter than the early days of Jim and Pam’s relationship on “The Office.” But are there any downsides to being friends with a guy first?

By Mia C. Gonzalez5 min read
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You’ve found yourself in a predicament because, well, there’s this guy. You feel drawn to him, attracted to him. You share a sense of humor. You click with him. You can easily spend hours texting back and forth. And everything inside you is yelling, “Don’t let this opportunity pass by! Lock him down before another girl comes along and scoops him up first! You’ll regret it if you don’t!”