6 Flirting Tricks To Make Him Obsessed With You

It doesn’t take much to pique a man’s interest through some milder, more feminine gestures and displays, along with some playful demureness. Historically, women could flash a wrist or an ankle, and it would be considered titillating and provocative. 

Regardless of today’s ubiquitous bare skin on display with little to nothing left to the imagination, you can make a man obsessed with you without having to show much skin at all. Through your visual and verbal communication and speaking to him in a way that’s inviting and really packs a punch, you’ll have a grip on any man in no time.

How can you make a lasting impression on a man through flirting that will make him obsessed? Let’s take a much closer look at six key techniques.

1. The Hair Tie Method

Your hair is your foremost noticeable feature to a man as it’s part of a woman’s overall feminine characteristic makeup. At the mere sight of your long, luscious locks, men instinctively become aroused as it’s a uniquely feminine feature that men typically do not possess. The vast majority of men don’t have long hair, thus, in seeing your long hair, they automatically imprint it into your overall feminine shape and visage. It’s akin to women having breasts. Men are attracted to breasts just by virtue of breasts being female. 

Kimberly from the “Ask Kimberly” YouTube channel explains the hair tie method. She suggests using a hair tie and twice pulling your hair up, taking it down, and tousling your locks to flirt with a man from across the room. Allowing him to see your neck and ears will also add to your mystique. Men are visual, and they like to gaze upon all the feminine features of a woman. With this in mind, tie up your hair, undo it, and proceed to make eye contact with your prospective beau. You will send him a clear signal that you are interested in him, and he will make his way over to you and break the ice. 

2. The Triangle Method

According to Psychology Today, the triangle method is a “foolproof way to make someone fall for you” by looking at their lips and each eye; however, they suggest not focusing too long on any feature as it can make the person on the receiving end feel self-conscious. You don’t want to make a man feel self-conscious. You want him to feel strong and powerful in his desire toward you while engaging in this technique.

Instead, allow your eyes to dart over each feature in the shape of a triangle. Look at his mouth for a brief second, then look into his eyes. Focus on one eye, then focus on the other. 

Looking at his mouth speaks a whole other suggestive language to him that you are curious about kissing him. 

A brief, eye-locking gaze is mesmerizing in itself. Looking at his mouth speaks a whole other suggestive language to him that you are curious about kissing him. He will then become very excited and stimulated by these seemingly harmless but highly potent flirting gestures.

3. The Proper Smiling Method 

You should always make it a point to smile at a man when you flirt with him. Men can be a bit clueless when it comes to whether or not you are actually flirting with them, and a smile can signal a lot. Save your smile for the right moment, though – don’t smile immediately when you first meet him, only smile when he finally tells you his name.

Strategically smile at him when he introduces himself to you and tells you his name. Proceed to say to him, “Hi, I’m Sarah. It’s nice to meet you…. Jake,” with a smile and lilt in your voice. Flash him that coquettish grin when you utter his name out loud and repeat it back to him. He will feel as if he’s the only man on Earth as all your focus and attention are on him. 

4. Ask Him To Do a Favor for You 

Men are, by their nature, problem solvers, and they love getting their hands dirty. They also enjoy being of service in ways that women may struggle with on their own. Ask him to do a favor for you – favors will cause people to psychologically believe that they like you.

Ask him to take a look at that warning light inside the dashboard of your car. Ask him how he might be able to assist you with some troubleshooting. Then, allow him to look under the hood and play around a bit with the various moving parts of your engine. 

This makes men feel important and useful, and it also provokes his “protect and provide” instinct, which makes a man feel masculine. It will also make him feel that he has bonded to you in performing specific favors and duties for you as a man. He will become emotionally invested in you just in the simple act of him looking under the hood of your car.

Don’t be surprised if he decides he wants to perform additional masculine favors for you, and soon. When that happens, he’s all yours. 

5. Ask Questions and Listen Intently

This is hook, line, and sinker for any man. Virtually any woman who decides to take this approach will have any man chasing after her.

People are rarely concerned with the inner workings of a man’s existence and what makes him tick. Men are in a default leadership position and are assumed to be in full control, thus they must have it all figured out and don’t need any babysitting. 

Men rarely encounter a woman who is as passionate about his life as he is. 

However, you are not babysitting a man by asking him about what makes him a man. You are instead making him feel seen, heard, and valued. Men rarely encounter a woman who is as passionate about his life as he is. Ask him about his interests and hobbies and what areas he excels in. Listen intently to how he responds and express that you admire him for it: “I love how you do that, and you’re very good at it. You’re tenacious, aren’t you?”

Let him talk about himself while you listen with intent and hang on his every word. It will prompt him to open up to you where he will be wanting to establish a much deeper emotional connection.

6. Say His Name in Sentences

To add to Point #3, don’t hesitate to say his name in certain moments to add flair to the conversation. A man will make the association of you feeling frenzied and drawn to him in uttering his name. He may even imagine you saying it while in the throes of steamy passion. 

See how that works? You’re not in any throes of passion, but it sends his mind wandering. “What would it be like to hear her say my name and tell me she loves me?”

Let him think up these wild scenarios. Put his mind to work in problem-solving, where he becomes emotionally invested.

Simply saying his name will send his mind and heart racing. It also conveys a tone of sincere respect, which men also find irresistible.

Closing Thoughts

Contrary to what you might believe, subtlety in flirting with men works to your advantage as a woman in getting a man obsessed with you. It’s very feminine and allows the man to use his imagination and put his problem-solving skills to good use. 

Your hair, your smile, your voice, and the way you say his name and listen to him intently packs more punch than you can imagine. And what ultimately makes him obsessed is the work he will step in and perform as a man to meet all your playful demands and win you over.

Give him hints, and let him take it from there and run with it. He will be obsessed with you in no time. Guaranteed.

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