30 Flirty Texts To Send Your Man

Flirting over text can feel awkward sometimes, but it doesn’t have to.

By Mia Gonzalez2 min read
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Whatever your flirting style might be, there’s little doubt that trying to flirt over text doesn’t always translate the way you’d hoped it would, the way it would have if you were in person. Texts, especially those meant to convey more than something straightforward, are notoriously easily misinterpreted, awkward, and nerve-wracking.

But still, texting has become an integral part of our everyday lives, to the point where it’s become an expected part of our romantic relationships. Texting is a way of connecting that’s valuable and time-saving, much more favorable than just not communicating at all. And as such, it’s essential that we learn the art of communicating over text, and that includes knowing how to flirt.

If you’ve been feeling at a loss as to how to flirt with your guy over text, here are a few cute messages you can try sending him.

If You’re Not Exactly Official Yet…

Your relationship is in that weird yet exciting in-between space – there’s no official label on it yet, but you both really like each other. You’re looking to give off flirty vibes without going overboard. Here are a few ideas:

  • “Hey, you. Miss me yet?”

  • “I haven’t been able to stop thinking about you.”

  • “Hey, cutie. When do I get to see you again?”

  • “I love seeing your name pop up on my phone.”

  • “You’re making me blush.”

  • “Thanks for lending me your jacket, by the way. I’m wearing it right now.”

  • “Are you thinking about me too?”

  • “I can’t wait to see you again… When will that be?”

  • “You make me smile even when you’re not around.”

  • “Just thinking about you, and how cute you are.”

If You’re Exclusive…

Just because you’re officially together doesn’t mean you’ll stop flirting, right? Even if you’ve been exclusive for a while now, it’s worth stepping up your flirting game. Try sending one of these to your boyfriend:

  • “I had a dream about you last night.”

  • “I’m having a hard time focusing at work… I can’t stop thinking about you.”

  • “How are you so handsome?”

  • “I can’t wait to kiss you again.”

  • “You, me, and a scary movie. Tonight. Bring some wine.”

  • “I want to feel your arms around me.”

  • “Send me a selfie. I want to see your handsome face.”

  • “Goodnight, my love. I’ll be dreaming about you.”

  • “We’ve been together for a while now, but you still give me butterflies.”

  • “I was just scrolling through my pictures of you… I’m the luckiest girl in the world.”

If You’re Married…

Marriage isn’t the death of romance – quite the opposite, actually. Sure, you already know you’ll be sharing a bed with him tonight, but why not continue to spice things up? Here’s how you can flirt with your husband over text:

  • “Hey, you. I can’t wait to see your handsome face when you get home tonight.”

  • “I have a special surprise for you tonight… Any guesses as to what it is?”

  • “Grab a bottle of wine on the way home. Let’s have a fun night in, just the two of us.”

  • “The kids are staying at my parents’ tonight… Do what you will with that information.”

  • “Hey. Want to guess what I’m thinking about right now?”

  • “You looked so hot when you left for work this morning. Those new jeans are really working for you.”

  • “Hey. Bubble bath tonight?”

  • “I can’t believe I get to be your wife. How did I get so lucky?”

  • “You’re the most handsome man I’ve ever seen.”

  • “I’m still thinking about last night.”

Closing Thoughts

No matter how long a time (or short a time) you’ve been together, it’s always worth it to kick your flirting game up a notch and keep the romance alive. Try sending your guy one of these texts, and see what happens!

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