We've been in a pandemic for almost a year now. Many of us are under lockdown and working remotely from home, which means we're spending a lot of time with our husbands. Like, all day, every day.
Some couples have adjusted to this new way of living easily, while others struggle because they're not used to spending so much time together. Throw kids into the mix, and it can feel relentless.
So how do you keep the spark alive when you're around your husband 24/7? You need to put in the effort and keep things interesting. Mix things up from the daily monotony by flirting with him.
1. Flirt with Your Husband by Dressing Up To Enhance Your Sex Appeal
Let's be honest, dressing well makes us feel good about ourselves. It's also no secret that men love women in dresses and heels. Why? Firstly, they're visual creatures, but mainly because it accentuates polarity between the two sexes, which can create attraction and passion.
Think of some of the most iconic women that men (and women) love: Marilyn Munroe, Grace Kelly, Audrey Hepburn, Adriana Lima, Gigi Hadid, Zendaya, Jessica Rabbit…
Men love women in dresses and heels because it accentuates polarity between the two sexes.
They're all the epitome of the feminine goddess. They're graceful, but they're also sex sirens or have an underlying sex appeal. Men all around the world desire them, and women want to be like them.
So put on a sexy dress or tight jeans that make your butt look round and peachy. Dust off those sexy high heels that you don't wear often enough, and apply some makeup to highlight your gorgeous eyes and kissable lips.
When you look sexy, you feel sexy, and you'll inadvertently act sexier, which your husband will find irresistible. He won't be able to take his eyes off you. You could also whisper to him, “I’m wearing your favorite panties," for full effect.
2. Flirt with Your Husband by Spraying Perfume
According to research, when a woman is looking to attract a man, she'll wear perfume to get his attention.
Perfume can also make you feel more feminine and sensual, altering your mood and making you act more seductively, thus making you appear more attractive.
Like your clothes, perfume can heighten your man's attraction and passion towards you. The survey shows that men find floral scents most attractive, but you should avoid coconut.
Men find floral scents most attractive, but you should avoid coconut.
So, spray on your husband's favorite perfume and watch it elicit a response. He may just pull you in for a kiss and smell your neck playfully.
3. Flirt with Your Husband by Touching Him
Touching your husband is not only a sign of affection, but it can also be super flirtatious if done correctly.
Remember, you want to create polarity, so the touch should be light, sensual, or playful. Here are a few ways to do that:
When you're watching TV, lightly stroke his thigh. Don't look at him when you're doing this; keep your eyes on the TV while stroking his leg.
When he comes out of work mode to grab a coffee, go up to him and start massaging his shoulders. This will add a bit of relaxation to his break.
When you're in bed together, touch him. This can be anything from a cozy cuddle or a sensual stroke.
Or you could give him a good old fashioned smack on the butt.
4. Flirt with Your Husband by Sending a Sexy Selfie
As mentioned, men are visual creatures, so sending him a selfie can be a fun way to flirt. Send one of you winking, playing with your hair, or just looking cute, preferably wearing the color red.
When a man sees a woman wearing red, it signals fertility.
Research shows wearing red makes you more attractive to the opposite sex but for different reasons. When a man sees a woman wearing red, it signals fertility, but when a woman sees a man in red, it signals status and dominance.
5. Flirt with Your Husband by Leaving Your Towel in the Other Room
Next time you go for a shower, "accidentally" leave your towel in the other room, so you're forced to walk past him all naked and dripping wet. Turn around to see his surprised face and wink at him playfully.
The trick to flirting is to have fun with it, to get the timing right, and not take yourself too seriously. If you're on the shy side, practice in front of a mirror until you feel comfortable and confident enough. The idea is to inject life and spiciness into your marriage to bring back the spark, romance, and excitement during the pandemic's monotony when every day can feel the same.