The Hidden Agenda: Why the Media Wants Women Divorced And Alone

It's not just the TikToks glorifying single life for twenty-somethings or the Instagram posts preaching "boss babe" over family.

No, the narrative has evolved (or should I say, devolved) into something even more insidious. Now, the mainstream media is zeroing in on middle-aged and older married women, whispering that divorce isn't just an option; it's your ticket to empowerment and happiness.

But let's pause and ask the uncomfortable question: Who benefits from turning us all into a generation of single, lonely, man-hating women? And why are they fueling the divide between men and women so relentlessly?

How Marriage Got Rebranded as a Trap

I remember a time when marriage was portrayed as a beautiful partnership, a sanctuary amid life's storms. A goal (or THE goal) in life. Shows and movies celebrated the messiness and joy of committed relationships. Fast-forward to today, and the script has flipped.

Take a glance at any women's magazine or streaming service: headlines scream "Why I Left My Husband and Never Looked Back" or "How Ending My Marriage Made Me Thrive." Celebrities aren't just sharing their splits; they're packaging them as inspirational tales of self-discovery. And don't get me started on the podcasts, endless episodes where "experts" dissect how resentment builds in long-term marriages, framing it as inevitable rather than fixable.

When “Science” Gets Twisted Into Anti-Marriage Propaganda

“The worst thing a woman can do, statistically speaking, is to get married to a man,” Liz Gilbert said recently on the Marie Forleo podcast. "Married women do not live as long as single women, they do not earn as much money as single women, they are not as happy as single women..." she continued. "They report themselves in every single way that you can measure sociological data for wellness as being less contented than single women."

As we’ve written before, that propaganda is simply untrue.

But all of this isn't accidental. It's a calculated extension of the campaign that targeted young women. For years, we've seen the push to deprioritize men and marriage. College campuses echo with mantras of "You don't need a man to complete you," while career advice columns urge delaying family for promotions and travel.

The New Message: Ditch Your Husband, Find Your “Self”

The result? Young men now desire marriage and a family more than young women. There’s a generation of us women in their thirties waking up to fertility clocks and wondering why fulfillment feels elusive. Now, that same playbook is being applied to those who've already tied the knot.

The media paints husbands as outdated burdens; clueless about emotional labor, stifling our potential, or simply not "evolving" fast enough. Resentment is the new buzzword for divorce, the empowering act. But is it really empowering, or is it a trap disguised as liberation?

Consider the stories flooding our feeds. Recent articles in major outlets: “Why midlife divorce is good for you (as long as you're a woman),” “Silver splitters: why divorced women are so happy,” “The Case for Ending a Long, Mostly Good Marriage.” The comments sections of these articles with cheers: "Yas queen!" Yet, buried in the fine print (or often omitted entirely) are the realities: the financial hits, the fractured family dynamics, the quiet nights staring at an empty dinner table.

Statistics tell a fuller tale. According to research, there are short-term and decade-long effects of divorce on midlife health for many women, especially those over 40. Loneliness spikes, with studies showing divorced individuals reporting higher rates of depression and physical health issues. And let's not ignore the kids, adult or still young, who navigate the fallout of a broken home.

Why Someone Wants You Single

So, who wants us all single and isolated? Follow the money and the ideology.

Consumer culture thrives on singles. Divorced women are prime targets for self-help books, dating apps, and luxury skincare lines and procedures promising "revenge bodies" and plenty of shopping for "independent living." A married couple shares resources; singles double the market.

Then there's the ideological angle. Radical feminism, amplified by the media, has long viewed traditional marriage as patriarchal oppression. By eroding it, they aim to reshape society into one where women are "free" and perpetually unanchored. Governments might even quietly approve since single households mean more taxpayers, less reliance on family units for support.

And in an era of declining birth rates, keeping women focused on self and stuff over family ensures the status quo of low population growth, aligning with certain ideas of globalist agendas that prioritize economic productivity over human connection.

The Manufactured Gender Divide

But the real casualty is the divide between men and women, which isn't organic; it's engineered.

Men are vilified as toxic, women as eternal victims needing escape. This fuels mistrust, making genuine, loving, collaborative partnerships rarer. I've spoken to friends in their forties and fifties who've felt the pull: a bad day turns into questioning their entire marriage after binge-watching influencer videos, chatting with divorced friends, or reading a viral thread on social media. Yet, when they resist and invest, through counseling, date nights, or simply communicating, they rediscover the depth marriage offers. 

It’s time to take back the narrative. Don't let the media's song lure you into singledom and regret. Marriage and relationships aren’t a prison. Like every good thing, they require work, but it's the work of a happy gardener tending to something beautiful. In a society hell-bent on isolating us, choosing love, connection, and marriage is the ultimate act of joyful rebellion.

Prioritize open conversations with your husband, seek community that uplifts rather than undermines, and question every "empowering" message that smells of division. If we reject this push toward loneliness for all, we can heal the gender rift and create a world where love is the foundation again, and it can withstand life's challenges.