How To Get Through The “Are We Dating Or Not?” Phase
We’ve all been there. You like someone, and they seem to be interested in you, until one day they disappear while you sit reevaluating everything you could have done wrong. Maybe you weren’t the issue…
I’m happily engaged and looking back on every guy who “ghosted” me is eye-opening. You don’t know someone’s true intentions until the relationship is over…or you’re married. Some of the guys had issues with women from their past, so they didn’t want to get too attached for fear of getting hurt. Some of them just wanted to use me…you know what for (but they didn't get it). Some of them were too selfish to even be in a relationship. The sad thing is that it wasn’t until I found my fiancé that I had these realizations. As soon as you become unattached to what they did to you, that’s when they come back. It’s a cruel cycle. That’s why I’m writing this.