Do you know that girl? The girl who walks into a room and commands it? She's beautiful and charming, all the girls want to be her, and the guys want to be with her. You have it within you to be just like her!
Here are four qualities of an irresistible woman:
Having the ability to be laid back and playful allows a man to relax and enjoy your company. This doesn’t mean you have to be a comedian all the time, but a woman who can be silly, who can laugh at herself, who can make a guy smile – there's something imperfectly perfect about this quality.
You don’t need to overthink your every move. Engage in lighthearted conversation, tease him, and most importantly, SMILE! Being playful reveals a bit of sweetness that’s undeniably attractive.
You don’t have to be the most attractive woman in the room to be confident. You often hear guys say they want a girl who is sexy and cute. It’s easy to be both! A woman radiates confidence when she displays her worth. Remember that actions speak louder than words. A confident woman doesn’t talk about how great she is; rather, she lives according to her standards, and that's what makes her great.
A woman radiates confidence when she displays her worth.
Confidence isn’t trying to be perfect all the time. It isn’t portraying entitlement. It isn’t being overly assertive or heavy-handed. Confidence is simply owning who you are, having self-respect, and employing the qualities that make you you.
It’s okay, and desirable even, for girls to take some initiative. Grab your guy’s hand sometimes, give him a flirty look now and then, and tell him when he’s done something you found especially attractive. Guys deserve affection and compliments too. Confident women know that showing a little vulnerability doesn’t make them weak.
We often say that some people feel like home. When we're in their presence, we feel relaxed, calm, and secure. At the end of a bad day, isn’t just being in the presence of someone who makes you feel better the best medicine? Even guys like some level of being taken care of. Maybe on occasions like this, all you need to do is listen, or snuggle up next to him, or just be loving in your mannerisms. The way you treat children, the way you interact with your friends and family, even the way you speak to strangers are all indications of how nurturing you are – and he WILL take notice.
"You can be vulnerable and still be powerful. You can have a gentle heart, but still, be rock solid at your core. You can be as calm as a breeze, but as fierce as a tiger. The best people embody both sides.” - Matthew Hussey
To be nurturing requires a practice of humility, love, and gentleness so that other people feel safe to be who they are in your presence. One of the best compliments a woman can give to a man is that he makes her feel safe, which honors his masculinity. You, in turn, can make a man feel safe by being nurturing, and in doing so, you are allowing him to honor your femininity.
She Has Self-Direction
There’s a difference between independence and self-direction. Today, for whatever reason, we have a false idea that independence means you can do everything on your own and the only person you need is you. But the truth is, we need people. We need meaningful relationships. What is admirable about independence is self-direction. A woman who knows what she wants and has the discipline to go after it is a force to be reckoned with. Ambition is just hot. Whether you exhibit this in your career, your education, your goals, or your relationships, it’s extremely attractive.
A woman who knows what she wants and has the discipline to go after it is a force to be reckoned with.
A woman whose happiness flourishes by having a well-rounded life is a strong woman. She finds fulfillment in multiple areas, her hobbies, her values, her friends, her career, etc. This quality is so important because your happiness should never solely rest on the status of your relationships. Healthy relationships are dynamic; sometimes you will need to be a pillar of strength for your partner, and at times they will need to be that solid pillar for you. There is something captivating about a woman who’s secure and driven (the same can be said about a man #couplegoals).
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