What To Wear On A First Date: 35 Dresses That Practically Guarantee A Second
First dates are nerve-wracking enough without staring at your closet wondering what to wear.
While some women have decided the “effortless” look means baggy jeans and a tank top or intentionally “ugly” outfits (yes, the viral “outfits men hate” trend), the truth is this: the right man won’t be impressed by how little you cared. Playing the “cool girl” who looks like she just rolled out of bed is a tactic that might work on the wrong kind of guy, but if you’re looking for something real, it’s not the vibe.
Instead, think of your outfit as the very first page of your love story. By choosing a pretty dress you feel confident in, you’re immediately setting yourself apart from every other girl he’s talking to. It shows that you cared enough to show up as your best self, which, in turn, makes him feel special too. And isn’t that what dating is about? Creating a moment that feels meaningful, even if it’s just sharing ice cream in the park.
Why a Dress Always Works
Here’s the secret: dresses are never out of place. Going to a cocktail bar? Heels, a flirty hemline, maybe some dainty jewelry. Strolling through the farmers’ market? Ballet flats, a simple sundress, messy bun, lip gloss. Dresses are versatile, feminine, and instantly attractive. Don’t overthink it. Just adjust your accessories, shoes, and beauty choices to match the setting.
Casual settings (ice cream, coffee, a walk): Go for ballet flats or sandals, a relaxed hairstyle, and minimal makeup.
Formal or semi-formal settings (dinner, drinks): Elevate the same dress with heels, soft curls or a sleek bun, and subtle jewelry.
You don’t have to test out the red dress theory (though it never hurts) or stick to the classic little black dress if that’s your go-to, you just need to find a dress that makes you feel radiant. That confidence will do half the flirting for you.
Below, I’ve rounded up 35 first date dresses that cover every mood: romantic, playful, classic, and even a little daring.