The Feminine Cost Of Losing Charlie Kirk

He was seated at a table that we have seen many times in various clips from the Whatever podcast, which has made itself famous because of its viral arguments between right-wingers and liberal feminists. But Charlie did not belittle anyone. He did not scream or curse. He didn’t even invoke shame. He simply told the women around him that they were engaging in behavior that was unhealthy for them, and that life would be so much better if they simply shut down their OnlyFans.

This message is starkly antithetical to what Western American culture teaches us about women, “choice,” and feminism. Everywhere we turn, we are told that “sex work is work,” and that posting pictures and videos of your naked body for others to consume is empowering and deseves unconditional respect. But that couldn’t be further from the truth. Prostitution and its many forms are degrading and morally diseased. The women who find success on platforms like OnlyFans may enjoy their big payouts temporarily and they may be told by mainstream culture that it’s perfectly respectable work, but Charlie genuinely wanted something different for them, and he said so in the most gentle, kind way possible: “It’s a hopeful, beautiful life ahead of you, and God loves every single one of us. We’re all sinners.”

Charlie was a staunch defender of traditional masculinity and femininity, and he bravely fought for the values and legislation that benefit women the most.

In fact, his delivery was so honest and moving that one of the feminists told him, “You’ve definitely been the most respectful one that I’ve seen.”

Charlie Kirk’s violent assassination was a loss for everyone across the country—including and especially women. Of course the legacy media headlines will tell you otherwise. They call Charlie a raging misogynist and sexist for his views on feminism and marriage, but if you look past the lies spewed in leftist publications, you can start to see clearly that Charlie was a staunch defender of traditional masculinity and femininity, and he bravely fought for the values and legislation that benefit women the most.

Charlie Kirk Was Unapologetically Pro-Life

Charlie is despised by liberals for his appearance on Jubilee when he argued with multiple young women about the horror of abortion. He consistently argued that abortion should be illegal and explained why it was morally equivalent to taking a life. Even in the face of being screamed at and hated, not only by everyone in the Jubilee episode, but by thousands watching, he never wavered in his moral stance on abortion. He has taken his pro-life stance to Oxford University for a debate as well, pressing liberals to admit that a fetus is a human being, and is thus worthy of basic human rights. No matter how heated the discussion was, Charlie never wavered. He defended mothers and their babies until his last breath. 

Abortion has been packaged as an act of defiance and power, and it has been sanitized to be seen as nothing more than taking a pill that makes your pregnancy “go away,” but it is a violent act that ends the life of an unborn child, regardless of how big they are or where they are on the schedule of development. 

He defended mothers and their babies until his last breath. 

The rise of abortion pill access online, for example, has created an unsafe, unregulated marketplace where women take powerful drugs without proper medical oversight. Mifepristone, the first pill in the regimen, carries known risks such as hemorrhage, infection, sepsis, and even death. When first approved, its use came with strict safeguards: in-person exams, gestational limits, and mandatory reporting of complications to the FDA. Over the past decade, however, these protections have been dismantled, despite the drug still carrying a black box warning. Critics argue these changes reflect political pressure and lobbying rather than new safety data, leaving women more vulnerable than ever. And yet, women are lied to constantly by both the media and medical providers about the safety of the drug and its effects on both mothers and their unborn babies. 

Charlie Kirk has always been one of the loudest voices to speak out against abortion, even and especially when it made him a villain. It’s this bravery that paved the way for many young women (and men) to learn the truth about abortion. There is nothing empowering about ending the life of your own baby before he is born, simply because he isn’t wanted or you don’t feel ready. While this may sound offensive at first to women who have been hammered with an alternative narrative for years, remember that real compassion is inseparable from the truth. And the truth is: every single human life is worthy of rights and protection, no matter how small that human may be—and becoming a mother is a blessing and a calling, not a miserable state of being that ruins your life. Charlie shared this message proudly and he encouraged women from all walks of life to recognize the beauty of motherhood rather than to be scared of it.

Charlie Kirk Recognized the Beauty of Marriage

It’s rare today to see young men talk about the importance of courting a woman and seeing the importance of marriage. With the likes of the manosphere and its ever-growing popularity, it’s all too common to see men lament about the ways that marriage only harms them and is thus completely useless on both an individual and collective level. Charlie refused to give this notion the time of day, though. He used his platform to consistently educate college students and young adults on how crucial marriage was to a moral, thriving society. 

Marriage and motherhood have long been recognized as stabilizing forces in society, offering benefits not only to families but also to communities at large. Research consistently shows that married women tend to report higher levels of happiness and better health outcomes compared to their unmarried peers. According to the Institute for Family Studies, married women are significantly less likely to experience poverty, depression, and poor physical health. Stable marriages also promote financial security, which helps women and their families thrive.

Motherhood contributes uniquely to the social fabric by fostering intergenerational bonds and ensuring the continuation of strong communities. Studies demonstrate that children raised in two-parent married households generally fare better academically and emotionally. Data from the Brookings Institution highlights that such children are less likely to experience poverty and behavioral problems, and more likely to succeed in school and later employment.

He used his platform to endlessly encourage the youth to see the beauty and sacredness of marriage, and he especially invigorated young men to lead.

On a societal level, marriage and motherhood support the development of social capital. Families form the foundation of communities, providing care networks, emotional stability, and civic engagement. When women are supported in marriage and motherhood, the ripple effects benefit society through healthier children, stronger economies, and more resilient social systems. Far from being private matters, these roles are essential for collective well-being.

We need leaders and influential men to talk about the importance of marriage now more than ever. As our culture is slipping and the birth replacement rate is dwindling, there is too much at stake to allow universities and mainstream culture to infiltrate the minds of young men and women when it comes to messages of family and marriage. Charlie’s death is a massive loss; he used his platform to endlessly encourage the youth to see the beauty and sacredness of marriage, and he especially invigorated young men to lead. Various clips show him telling men that they should never allow a woman to pay for a date, and that a husband should be ready to lay down his life for his wife the way Christ did for the Church. 

Charlie recognized the inherent (and beautiful) differences between men and women. But in doing so, he never claimed that one gender was better than the other. Rather, he spoke a balanced message that painted how beautiful and complementary the relationship between a husband and wife can be. He used his marriage to Erika as an example of how men and women are meant to work in harmony with one another, and he always praised his wife for her feminine qualities and strengths that he lacked. 

Charlie Kirk Used His Platform to Elevate Women’s Voices

Two of the biggest female names in the conservative media space are closely connected to Charlie, and he hand selected them at the beginning of their career. Alex Clark, host of the podcast Culture Apothecary, has been an employee of TPUSA for years, and her very first show was called POPlitics. She has spoken extensively about how Charlie supported her from day one, and how he always believed in her. Even when she went to TPUSA and said she wanted to completely rebrand the show into Culture Apothecary, Charlie supported her entirely and said he trusted her judgment. He has called her one of the most influential voices for the right-wing, especially for women, unceasingly helping her grow her career and making her a prominent voice at every TPUSA conference. 

For someone who is labeled a misogynist who hates women, Charlie sure did spend a lot of his career elevating female voices, hosting conferences for young women, and supporting women’s hopes and dreams.  

In 2017, Charlie discovered Candace Owens and hired her on the spot when they first met. They spent the next couple years traveling around the country visiting college campuses, meeting Kanye West, being attacked by leftists in the street, and making a huge dent in American culture. Charlie did everything he could to support Candace’s dream and to help her career grow. Until the day he died, they remained close friends. “There is no Candace without Charlie,” Candace said in a touching tribute. For someone who is labeled a misogynist who hates women, Charlie sure did spend a lot of his career elevating female voices, hosting conferences for young women, and supporting women’s hopes and dreams.  

Our society is worse off without Charlie, his impact, and his life’s work. We know his message and mission will live on through his wife and his team, but his death is a massive loss for women across the country, even the ones who hate him. Because the things that Charlie stood for are the very things that bring the most joy and reward to women—and to our families. Even when the media attempts to smear his name, we know that Charlie was a staunch defender of women. And that is something we will always be grateful for.