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Season 2 of 'Nobody Wants This' Is the Love Story Every Modern Woman Secretly Wants

In a culture that treats faith as outdated and relationships as disposable, Nobody Wants This dares to ask what happens when a sex podcaster falls in love with a rabbi.

By Johanna Duncan6 min read
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Netflix’s NWT pairs Joanne (Kristen Bell), an outspoken and emotionally complex podcaster who’s made a career out of dissecting the absurdities of modern dating, with Noah (Adam Brody), a sincere rabbi whose entire life is built around faith, family, and tradition. Their unlikely love story unfolds not just as an opposites-attract romance, but as a quiet cultural duel between America’s rising nihilism and its fading reverence for meaning.

A rom-com on the surface, it doubles as a mirror reflecting a generation caught between progress and nostalgia.

The Setup: Chaos Meets Covenant

Joanne has built her entire personal brand around self-awareness and skepticism, and in this second season of NWT we see her struggle to keep up with the brand she has built while growing closer to Noah. Her podcast is half confessional and half comedy; a space where she can unpack disastrous dates, overshare about intimacy, and remind her audience (and herself) that men are both ridiculous and irresistible.

While watching, I couldn’t help but think of Alex Cooper, whose career trajectory mirrors Joanne’s almost beat for beat. That parallel isn’t accidental. Nobody Wants This was co-created by real-life podcaster Erin Foster, who drew heavily from her own experience in the industry. The dynamic it captures—the outspoken, self-aware, liberal woman unexpectedly drawn to a man of conviction—isn’t a cliché so much as a cultural pattern. Again and again, we see women at the epicenter of modern media and feminism quietly gravitating toward men who embody tradition, faith, and purpose; men who believe in something bigger than themselves.

Noah, on the other hand, lives within the quiet order of ritual. He serves as a rabbi at a conservative temple, Temple Chai, where community and tradition define life. His world is the antithesis of Joanne’s. It is filled with structure and purpose.

When the two meet, their chemistry is undeniable, but so is the cultural whiplash. From the start, Nobody Wants This sets up their relationship as a high-stakes negotiation between two worldviews. Joanne represents a generation raised on individualism, therapy language, and the idea that vulnerability should be monetized. Noah embodies a disappearing model of life anchored in tradition and covenant instead of convenience. And yet, somehow, they fall in love.

As a viewer, you can’t help but take sides. Your own upbringing, experiences, and views will lean you toward bigger empathy for one side or the other. At times, Joanne reminded me of myself and my more conservative or religious ex-boyfriends, and some of the conversations I’ve had with them. At others, the family drama reminded me of times when my brothers and cousins brought home girls or friends who were much more progressive than my family. Either way, it's almost impossible to stay neutral while devouring this series.

Family Portraits in Contrast

The brilliance of the show lies not only in its central couple but in the mirror world of their families. As Tolstoy said, “Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.” That’s a clear descriptor for Noah and Joanne’s families.

Noah’s family is warm and predictable. The rules and routine have made it so Noah and his brother Sasha (Timothy Simons) know exactly what is expected and what is not. On the other hand, Joanne seems to be running from reinvention to reinvention (just like her mom), seemingly confused about who she is or what she wants. They are clearly the result of very different parenting styles and, of course, cultures.

Bina (Tovah Feldshuh), the commanding Jewish matriarch at home and in the temple, stands for the endurance of tradition. It's obvious how a woman like her can raise sons like Noah and Sasha, as they are largely shaped by a strong commitment to family. In season 2, we learn that Noah married Esther after they found out they were expecting, and as she starts to unravel in what seems like a mid-life crisis, Sasha (while genuinely struggling) chooses to stay loyal to his marriage while his wife navigates her own feelings.

Joanne’s family, meanwhile, is a satire of modern secular chaos. Her father left her mother after coming out as gay; he now lives with his partner in a picture-perfect yet emotionally detached relationship, which by season 2 has already failed. Her mother still pines for him while insisting she’s “fine”; perhaps an explanation or a shadow of her daughter’s behavior. The dysfunction feels painfully familiar. It's the fallout of decades spent chasing self-fulfillment instead of shared purpose.

Joanne’s sister Morgan (Justine Lupe), who co-hosts her podcast, is her mirror image: confident, ironic, and convinced that control is the only protection against heartbreak. It's this belief that prompts the girls to be in constant search of red flags.

When these families collide, the show becomes less about love and more about the clash of cultures. There are warm moments, like the interesting and somewhat quiet admiration between Bina and Morgan, women who at first glance seem like water and oil. And the central clash: Noah and Joanne, as Noah is born into a world filled with meaning and a sense of legacy, while Joanne inherits a legacy of permanent searching.

The Red Flag Generation

One of the show’s most relatable through-lines is Joanne’s obsession with “red flags.” She approaches love the way a scientist might approach a dangerous experiment: observe, measure, avoid. Every time Noah says or does something that doesn’t fit her model of emotional safety, she spirals, even if it's something fairly minor.

In one standout episode, she finds an old keepsake box in Noah’s room and assumes it represents a lot more than what it actually does. It turns out to be nothing more than a few photos and gifts that he and Rebecca (his ex) had shared. His unwillingness to throw it in the garbage is a clear example of his sense of reverence for memory and people. But Joanne’s panic says everything about modern dating culture: we are trained to assume betrayal, disappointment, and red flags long before either one actually arrives.

Joanne’s red-flag anxiety isn’t cynicism; it’s a symptom of the exhaustion and heartbreak she has experienced. It’s the fatigue of women told to stay hyper-vigilant, to read men like data sets, to predict their behaviors, and to guard themselves at all costs. Her constant scanning mirrors a generation of women conditioned to mistrust. She has been told that men are not trustworthy, so the hardest part of her relationship with Noah is simply accepting that he is.

Noah’s calm, ritual-oriented steadiness contrasts her storm perfectly. His world has boundaries, reverence, and predictability. He doesn’t live in fear of red flags because he lives in the structure of faith and tradition. Joanne mistakes that for naivety, but as the show unfolds, she begins to see it as peace. Eventually, this is what fuels her own decision to convert.

From Satire to Sincerity

The show’s tone balances biting humor with gentle sincerity. The first half plays like a satire of influencer culture, but as her love for Noah deepens, performance gives way to sincerity. The woman who once treated religion as a punchline begins to glimpse its beauty, not through conversion at first, but through her relationship with Noah and his family. She attends Shabbat dinners, learns Hebrew blessings, and gradually starts growing into reverence.

Meanwhile, Noah faces his own reckoning. To be with Joanne, he leaves his conservative temple for a more progressive one that will accept her, a decision he struggles with as it brings to light how much tradition truly means to him.

For Noah, modernity’s cost isn’t freedom, it’s reverence, and he’s not willing to pay it. Both characters are losing parts of themselves to meet in the middle, and that, the show suggests, is what real love demands. There is some truth to this, since ultimately, love that makes it until the end isn’t about always agreeing or seeing eye to eye, but about couples who choose the other above the conflict every time. Spoiler alert: That’s what Joanne and Noah ultimately do in the end.

When Faith and Freedom Collide

The final episode ties the story together with quiet grace. Joanne never announces that she’s converting, but after the last five minutes of the second season play out, it's easy to predict where Joanne is heading. The woman who once mocked tradition now longs for it.

Noah, in turn, decides that being with Joanne matters more than his career trajectory or community approval. There's no grand proposal or rain-soaked kiss, but the ending is deeply human nonetheless. They choose each other not because it’s convenient, but because it’s right. That act of mutual surrender is what gives Nobody Wants This its depth.

It’s not a story about rebellion or compromise, but about how love can transform us for the better. Joanne doesn’t fully abandon her individuality, and Noah doesn’t abandon his faith; instead, they both evolve toward a shared meaning and purpose. In a time when love stories often glorify autonomy, this one honors devotion and humility.

A Culture War in Disguise

Beneath the jokes and romantic tension, Nobody Wants This doubles as a cultural diagnosis. It’s about what happens when a society that worships wokeness collides with the human hunger for reverence.

Recent data shows just how stark that divide has become. The American Enterprise Institute reports that liberal, secular women—those least likely to participate in organized religion—are the most likely to struggle with anxiety, depression, and chronic loneliness. At the same time, Gen Z men are becoming more religious, with measurable increases in weekly worship attendance and belief in absolute truth.

The series captures that exact fault line. Joanne is the secular woman with “everything”: success, freedom, and self-knowledge, yet she remains restless and unsatisfied. Noah is the traditional man with boundaries and faith, yet he’s lonely. Their romance feels less like fiction and more like prophecy: a microcosm of America’s growing cultural divide.

And yet, Nobody Wants This refuses cynicism. It doesn’t mock Noah’s faith or ridicule Joanne’s wokeness; it stages a conversation between them. Joanne’s modernity and Noah’s tradition clash, yes, but they also refine each other. Her openness softens his rigidity, and his conviction brings peace to her chaos. They are dancing their way into balance, not conquest. That is the show’s focal point, and truly what makes it so good.

Performances and Writing

Personally, I was afraid that the show would mock religion and fail to do justice to Noah and his family, but I must admit that the writing was extremely well done. They kept it simple, accurate, and most importantly, interesting. You may not be Jewish and may not agree with the religious discipline Noah follows, but you will come to understand him and his ways. That’s good art.

The protagonists balance each other out perfectly. Kristen Bell’s Joanne is both hilarious and heartbreaking. She embodies the exhaustion of the “cool girl who’s over it,” revealing layers of vulnerability beneath her perfect-in-her-own-way armor. Adam Brody’s Noah is her perfect counterpart: masculine, grounded, and magnetic. It’s not just that every girl wants him; every girl’s parents want him too. Joanne and Noah turn what could have been a caricatured dynamic into something achingly real and honest.

The supporting cast elevates the show further. Morgan (Joanne’s sister) delivers some of the best comedic lines in recent memory, especially in the scenes where she defends her sister’s chaos while mocking Noah’s “spiritual pretension.” Sasha (Noah’s brother) provides a moral echo, questioning whether adapting faith to fit modern life is enlightenment or erosion. These two were among my personal favorites.

The writing avoids both moral preaching and mindless banter. It’s smart enough to critique influencer culture but tender enough to honor the yearning beneath it.

Why It Resonates

What makes Nobody Wants This stand out in the crowded Netflix catalog is that it captures the spirit of the moment without pandering to it. It understands that beneath the humor and trending audios, there is a generation starving for meaning.

Joanne’s story is the story of countless women who were told independence would make them whole, only to find it made them lonely and even purposeless. Noah’s story reflects men who still crave stability and belief in a world that calls both outdated.

Their romance feels less like fiction and more like prophecy: a microcosm of America’s growing cultural divide.

Their romance reminds viewers that true intimacy isn’t built on constant analysis or perfect alignment. It’s built on surrender toward a shared sense of meaning and love for something bigger than the self.

Final Thoughts

At its core, Nobody Wants This is about a woman learning that rules and tradition don’t threaten her freedom; they complete it. Joanne’s gradual conversion (emotional before religious) is the show’s quiet triumph.

Through Noah, she rediscovers reverence. Through her, Noah learns that faith can survive being challenged.

Because maybe the truth is this: It’s not that nobody wants relationships like theirs. It’s that we’ve forgotten how to admit that we do. We want a man with solid principles, and we want to rebel without sacrificing love, family, and everything that truly matters.

And Nobody Wants This reminds us that meaning, love, and family are the things still worth wanting.