Quiz: What Theme Should Your Next Girls’ Night Be?

There’s something sacred about girls’ night. It's when the masks come off (or go on, depending on your skincare agenda), and in the midst of ordinary girl behavior we experience the extraordinary joys of girlhood, no matter how old we are. Whether you're celebrating a birthday, healing a broken heart, or just craving connection, the theme sets the tone. Will it be playful? Dramatic? Whimsical? Elegant? Let's find out what theme best suits your current mood and needs.

Grab a pen or keep a mental score. Choose the option that best describes you for each question.

1. What’s your current fashion aesthetic?

A. Cashmere sweaters, pearl studs, and anything that feels timeless
B. Glitter eyeshadow, cowboy boots, and friendship bracelets
C. Black silk robe, gold jewelry, and something a little avant-garde
D. Puff sleeves, heart-shaped sunglasses, and a vague sense of childhood déjà vu
E. Knitted cardigans, ballet flats, and heirloom brooches
F. Dainty lace, literary references, and cottagecore charm
G. Leather pants, red lipstick, and a glass of French red
H. Yoga pants, natural nails, and an oat milk latte you made yourself

2. What are your ideal vibes for the night?

A. Cozy, elevated, and homemade
B. Nostalgic, energetic, and slightly chaotic
C. Artistic, fashion-forward, and luxurious
D. Surreal, whimsical, and curious
E. Sentimental, feminine, and low-stakes
F. Intellectual, dreamy, and floral
G. Sophisticated, moody, and a little mysterious
H. Chill, grounded, and good for the soul

3. Pick your dream girl gang activity:

A. Cooking an elegant meal from scratch
B. Recreating a concert, complete with outfit changes
C. Designing hats from scrap fabrics and drinking Champagne
D. Playing croquet in the backyard in costume
E. Scrapbooking, doing puzzles, or flower arranging
F. Reading poetry out loud and making herbal tea blends
G. Painting each other’s nails while discussing life regrets
H. Doing face masks and talking about healing and growth

4. What’s your go-to comfort show or movie?

A. Barefoot Contessa or anything on Food Network
B. Taylor Swift: The Eras Tour, obviously
C. The Devil Wears Prada or old couture runway shows
D. Alice in Wonderland (yes, even the Tim Burton one)
E. Anne of Green Gables or anything your grandma loved
F. Pride & Prejudice (Keira Knightley version)
G. Midnight in Paris or classic noir films
H. The Home Edit or any calming home/lifestyle vlog

5. What's your love language?

A. Acts of service
B. Words of affirmation
C. Receiving gifts
D. Quality time
E. Physical touch (with the girls: hugs, hand-holding, hair braiding)
F. Thoughtful letters and book recommendations
G. Deep conversation over wine
H. Peaceful silence and shared space

6. Choose a drink for the evening:

A. White wine spritzers or a lavender gin fizz
B. Bright pink mocktails or spicy margaritas
C. Veuve Clicquot, served cold and unapologetic
D. Tea served in mismatched porcelain cups
E. Warm cider or homemade hot chocolate
F. Rosé with edible flower ice cubes
G. Deep red cabernet or a dirty martini
H. Kombucha or ceremonial-grade matcha

Now tally up your answers and see which letter you chose most frequently!

Mostly A’s: Ina Garten Night

Think elevated domestic goddess. Light candles. Make something from scratch. Wear your nicest robe or relaxed dress. This night is for cozy luxury, friendship, and remembering that “store-bought is fine,” but handmade is pure love.

Mostly B’s: Eras Night

Break out the glitter, the girlhood, and the Taylor Swift playlist. Each guest dresses in the Eras tour style and of course, making beaded bracelets is a top priority! Bonus points if it involves karaoke and choreographies.

Mostly C’s: Schiaparelli Night

This night is high fashion, high drama. Wear black and gold. Watch an art film. Talk about beauty, absurdity, and love. Design surreal accessories from junk drawer treasures. You are the muse now.

Mostly D’s: Alice in Wonderland Night

Enter the whimsical unknown. Tea party tablescapes, “eat me” cookies, and silly games with mysterious rules. You’re not here to be normal, you’re here to be curious.

Mostly E’s: Grandma’s Hobbies Night

You’re channeling your inner Golden Girl. Embroidery, puzzles, old love songs, and stories about your childhood crushes. The vibe? Vintage. Feminine. Eternal.

Mostly F’s: Literary Cottagecore Night

A night of soft candlelight, handwritten poetry, classical music, and floral everything. Bring your favorite quote, wear linen, and write letters you might never send.

Mostly G’s: French Femme Fatale Night

This is not your average girls’ night. Think noir movies, jazz records, and candlelit confessions. You’re not hosting the night, you’re directing it. Seduction, sophistication, sisterhood.

Mostly H’s: Glow-Up Night

You’re in your self-reclamation era. This girls’ night is all about glow-ups from the inside out. Clean beauty swaps, vision boarding, healing talks, and magnesium mocktails. Soft, slow, sacred.