Beauty

Is Your Man’s Hairline Receding? Here’s How You Can Help

Your man's receding hairline may be an even bigger eye-opener of time passing than your unruly grays. However, if the thought of mentioning this makes you cringe, don't worry! There are plenty of ways to address his hair loss without hurting his feelings.

By Simone Sydel4 min read
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Your man's once luscious locks beginning to shy away a little farther from his forehead each day is the unspoken worry of many women.

While we adore every part of our men – receding hairline or not – it's perfectly natural to want to lend a helping hand. So, instead of tiptoeing around the bathroom, wondering if he'll notice the new hair growth serum on your side of the sink, there are more pragmatic ways to address the issue without actually addressing it.

In this guide, we'll explore the whys and hows of male hair loss and, most importantly, how you can be his stealthy hair heroine without him even knowing it.

Understanding Hair Loss in Men

Whether it's Mother Nature playing a not-so-funny joke or a rather commonly dealt genetic card, hair loss in men is a common occurrence that affects about one in five men in their twenties, one in three men in their thirties, and nearly one in every two men in their forties.

So, let's take a closer look at some factors that pretty much determine hair density in half of the world's population:

The Genetic Game of Chance

First and foremost, we can't ignore the elephant in the room when it comes to men's hair loss: genetics. From the pattern of hair loss to the age at which it begins, genetics play a significant role in the hair loss game. This is because several genes are associated with hair health, the most significant one being located on the X chromosome, which men inherit from their mothers. This particular gene is responsible for regulating the production of the androgen receptor protein, which then interacts with DHT, a hormone that controls hair growth. It has been found that, in men predisposed to male pattern baldness from genetics, DHT binds to receptors in hair follicles on the scalp and causes them to shrink. As a result, the life cycle of the hair in these follicles is shortened, and they begin to grow thinner and shorter strands of hair until they eventually stop producing hair entirely.

Stress: The Silent Hair Snatcher

Besides genetics, stress can be another significant but sneakier culprit for male hair loss. When the body is under stress, the production of the hormone cortisol is increased, which means you are pretty much put in a fight or flight mode, which only stimulates the essential parts needed for you to survive. And with hair growth being non-essential to our survival, high levels of stress push more hairs into the resting phase prematurely. So, if your man is under prolonged stress, this is definitely bad news for his hairline, as the resting phase leads to more shedding and, therefore, thinner hair.

Lifestyle: More Than Just a Hairdo

Lifestyle factors are also significant players in this game, and poor diet, lack of sleep, and, believe it or not, that baseball cap he wears every weekend (yes, seriously!) can contribute to his hair waving goodbye.

It's well known that our skin and hair get nutrients from our blood. This means that if your man has a poor diet consisting of foods low in beneficial nutrients such as protein, iron, and zinc, his hair may suffer as a result. These nutrients are essential for the production of keratin, which is the main structural component of hair.

Additionally, accessories such as caps and hats can lead to the build-up of sweat, dirt, and bacteria on the scalp, which can cause irritation, inflammation, and clogging of hair follicles. When this happens, hair growth can be affected, and in severe cases, it can even cause hair loss or at least exacerbate the process.

The Art of Subtle Support

So, you noticed your man’s hair looking a little thinner the last time you lovingly ruffled it, and now you’re wondering how you can bring it up without bringing it up and potentially make him feel self-conscious. One idea is to compliment him on how soft his hair feels, which can be a great segway into discussing hair care without ever actually mentioning hair loss yourself.

Additionally, having casual conversations about hair care, or, for example, mentioning an article you read or a TikTok you saw that sheds light on how certain hair products or accessories can affect hair health, can be the lighthearted and informative gateway to making him think about it without getting offended or hurt.

Finally, if you have a similar concern, you can encourage both of you to make an effort to improve your hair health and bond in the process while serving as each other's support.

Lifestyle Tweaks for Healthier Hair

Now, this is the part where you can really shine as a stealthy hair heroine!

Consider introducing subtle lifestyle tweaks that may help improve your man's hairline while benefiting his overall health. These are also things that you can be a bit more open about than others, especially if you feel that your man may enjoy the change of, let's say, incorporating healthier meals into your diet together. This not only shows support but also makes it seem like it is something both of you are working toward rather than just an individual issue for him to deal with.

Additionally, lifestyle changes such as exercising together are good not only for the body but also for hair health! Even just enjoying an evening walk together can be an excellent opportunity to bond with your man while secretly improving his chances of keeping his luscious locks for longer.

Subtle Changes in the Bathroom Cabinet

If you'd rather avoid talking about receding hairlines altogether but still want to make sure changes are being made to improve your man's hair health, you should consider introducing hair-friendly products into the bathroom without mentioning anything beforehand.

Maybe a new shampoo that “just happened” to be on sale but contains hair growth-boosting ingredients such as rosemary oil will give him a hint, or even better, a result, without the need to point fingers at his hairline.

Another trick that can be enjoyed as a bonding moment is offering your man a scalp massage, which can be presented as a tool for relaxation and a way to de-stress after a long day. Little does he know, this method not only feels amazing but is also fantastic for stimulating hair growth, due to improved circulation in the area and helping those nutrients find their way to the hair follicles.

Closing Thoughts

While a receding hairline in men is many women's fear, there is more than one subtle way of helping without making them feel insecure or defensive about the issue.

Besides suggesting (or subtly pushing) changes in diet, lifestyle, and hair care, there is also something special about embracing certain changes together. Your man's hairline noticeably receding might seem like a less-than-ideal inconvenience to deal with, but it's still a minor issue in the grand scheme of things. In situations like these, it's good to think about and be grateful for how lucky you are to have each other's support and love as you navigate through life's ups and downs, as well as for the time you've been blessed to be together and witness these changes.

So next time you catch yourself worrying about your man's hairline, try to shift your focus to something more positive and remind yourself of the bigger picture (and, of course, set a "notify me" reminder for when that hair growth shampoo comes back in stock!).

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