Is The “Dating From Abundance” Mindset Turning You Into A Gambler?
If you’re in the dating market, social media algorithms have probably shuffled dating coach videos into your feed. Online coaches are everywhere these days, offering hot takes on romance from a wide range of credentials. Many say that just changing your mindset can be the key to finding happiness.
“Dating from abundance” is one of the newest pieces of love coach vocab. It refers to a mindset pitched as the solution to desperation, and it’s meant to remind you that, as your grandmother used to say, “there are plenty of fish in the sea.” The idea is this: If you approach dating as though good men are rare, you’ll settle for the first one you find and accept the bare minimum from him. In contrast, dating from abundance means believing that good men are everywhere, so you can — and should — be choosier about the one you truly have a connection with. But how do you know if you’re dating from abundance or just being picky?