Relationships

I'm A 30-Something Single And Not On Dating Apps—Here's How A Professional Matchmaker Is Helping Me

Being single well into your adult years can be a recipe for introspection and rumination, which is why I brought in an expert to help me align my values and vision for a future relationship. Here’s what I learned from the world of matchmaking.

By Delphine Chui4 min read
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I can’t decide if the fact that nearly 47% of the U.S. population is currently single comforts or worries me. As a single 30-something with a huge desire in my heart for marriage and family life, you’d think I’d be all over dating apps. But I’m not. I can’t quite bring myself to create a profile or swipe just yet, even though 45% of couples have reported meeting online, with the other 33% being connected by a friend and 32% meeting at events such as concerts or festivals.