I Asked My Guy Friends What Men Really Mean When They Say “It’s Not You, It’s Me” And The Answers May Shock You

You’d think after all this time co-existing that men and women would be able to communicate without a hitch, but alas, our communication styles (and listening styles) can be such polar opposites that it sometimes feels like we’re speaking different languages. In the case of men, that language can often seem minimal, infrequent, or even deflective because they tend to guard their feelings.