In the film, The Trouble with Being Born, a grown man, played by Dominik Warta, gets a child-like android to replace his 10-year-old daughter who went missing 10 years ago. The robot looks exactly like a 10-year-old little girl because she is in fact played by 10-year-old actress Lena Watson.
The man calls the robot “Elli” and she calls him “Daddy.” Although the sexual relationship the man has with Elli in the film is implied, there's no doubt that the father is indeed having a sexual relationship with her. In one particularly disturbing scene, Elli is laying naked on the counter as her father removes her vagina and tongue for cleaning.
In one particularly disturbing scene, Elli is laying naked on the counter as her father removes her vagina and tongue for cleaning.
The Young Actress
The role of Elli was originally supposed to be played by a 20-year-old actress, but after filmmaker Sandra Wollner decided to remove some of the more explicit sex scenes, she decided to change the age of Elli to 10 years old. It seems there were steps taken to protect the young actress Lena because, although there are many nude scenes of Elli in the film, Lena was never actually naked. All nudity was done with CGI. Additionally, the young actress wore a silicone mask and wig to not only hide her identity, but also to help her better understand that this was just a role she was playing for the film.
The young actress wore a silicone mask and wig to not only hide her identity but to help her better understand that this was just a role she was playing for the film.
Does that make the sexual relationship between the father and her any more bearable to watch? Or the relationship any more appropriate to be the subject of a film? Absolutely not. FilmGoblin’s review hit the nail right on the head: “Pedophilia Finally Gets Mainstream Nod In The Trouble with Being Born.”
Sexual Abuse by the Father
In the movie, the father sexually abuses the girl android robot. It would be disturbing no matter what age the android appeared to be, but the fact of the matter is, she's meant to be a 10-year-old little girl, and that absolutely sickens me.
Elli is meant to replace the man’s actual daughter, which leads us to believe that the father was sexually abusing his own daughter years ago.
To make matters even worse, Elli is meant to replace the man’s actual daughter, which leads us to believe that the father was sexually abusing his own daughter years ago (and couldn't bear to stop, hence the robot replacement). Our horrible suspicion is confirmed when Elli has memories that have been programmed into her by the father from the daughter’s actual memory: Elli’s voice is heard saying “Mum doesn’t need to know everything.” Cue stomachs churning everywhere.
Despite what Wollner may have thought, her film is neither artistic nor thought-provoking. On the contrary, this film is absolute garbage and a disgusting embarrassment to our society as a whole. What in the world was Wollner thinking? The sexual exploitation of children in film, even if they are meant to be an android, is horrific and inappropriate.
The Trouble with Being Born is promoting rape culture, child abuse, and pedophilia. As a mother of a 10-year-old daughter myself, I'm absolutely repulsed by this film and heartbroken that this is the type of “entertainment” being produced in 2020. Audience members were right to walk out of the Berlin screening, and I for one am boycotting the film.