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Three Types Of Men Who Are Drawn To You Based On How You Dress

By Juliana Stewart·· 5 min read
Three Types Of Men Who Are Drawn To You Based On How You Dress

First impressions count. Are you aware of the effects your clothes have on men?

Everyone knows first impressions count. Whether you wear a little black dress on a night out, a cute jumpsuit on a date, or a business suit that screams #BossBabe — what you wear sends powerful signals out into the world. 

It's no different with men and relationships. Men will likely say, “I like you without makeup” or “You look fine in sweats,” which is the truth. But what a man says and what he actually responds to are two completely different things.

What a man says and what he actually responds to are two completely different things.

Women know this on a subconscious level. It’s the reason why we get dolled up for first dates. It’s also the reason why Instagram and OnlyFans models are so successful. 

Whether women are conscious of it or not, we can garner a lot of attention from men by dressing a certain way.

Men’s Brains Are Wired Differently

According to research, male arousal is far more visual in nature than female arousal. It's the reason porn and videos directed at men are a multi-billion dollar industry while similar products directed towards women aren’t as popular. 

Women’s arousal stimulation is a little more complex, which explains why we’re more into erotica, for example. The storytelling in erotica ignites our imagination and engages our feelings, compared to porn which is explicitly visual and an instant gratification. 

Male arousal is far more visual in nature than female arousal. 

This difference may also explain why men and women approach sex differently. Men can be aroused instantly by seeing the naked body, while women need a bit more time to warm up (e.g. through conversation, connection, and foreplay).

In the context of dating and our clothes, while women think wearing a revealing dress will help to attract a man, a man is thinking that dress is a form of seduction.

The Right Balance

Depending on the kind of attention and respect you want to elicit, there are certain styles you can wear that can attract a specific kind of man and influence his reaction towards you.

The Sexy Look

Looking sexy is not just about a woman’s appearance, but also about her energy and the way she carries herself. 

Some women can look sexy in a pair of jeans or a flowy dress, while others look frumpy and clunky. If you think you fall under the latter category, certain fabrics can help to make you look and feel sexier such as satin, silk, lace, or softer and more luxurious fabrics.

Pair it with heels and some jewelry, and you’ll instantly look and feel more feminine. 

What kind of man likes this look?

A masculine man is drawn to a feminine woman. So wearing anything that accentuates the feminine traits of the fairer sex creates polarity, which can stimulate sexual attraction.

The Classy Look

Wearing classy clothes can make you appear demure, chic, and elegant. This look is about being conservative and revealing less or just the right amount. It’s less about showing skin and more about showing your style and taste. 

If you think about it, nudity is associated with sex, so showing less skin can also avoid unwelcome attention. 

Classy clothes can make you appear demure, chic, and elegant.

Class isn’t just about your clothes though. It also has everything to do with the way you hold yourself graciously and respectably.

What kind of man likes this look?

A masculine man with refined taste will be attracted to this look. He’s mature, he knows exactly what he likes, and he isn’t afraid to go after it.

Classy outfits won’t necessarily stimulate the same instant reaction a red bodycon dress will, but classiness commands respect. He may even think you’re more reserved and will have to try harder to connect with your personality than just go by what you’re wearing.

You might not get as much attention or stray glances, but when you do it’s likely to be from a man who is willing to put in the effort to get to know you.

The Slutty Look

Revealing clothes will always attract attention. Some women feel empowered and liberated by expressing their sensual and sexual sides, but not understanding how our clothes affect men shows a lack of broader awareness. 

No matter where you go, there are always social cues that we have to abide by, so it’s about being smart with our choices. Sure these outfits might be fun to wear, but they can attract the wrong and even dangerous kind of attention in everyday settings. Dressing slutty in the streets means you will always attract attention, whether you like it or not. Sometimes it will be from men staring, and other times it will be disapproving looks from other women. 

Dressing slutty in the streets means you will always attract attention, whether you like it or not. 

Also, if you’re in a relationship and dress provocatively, people will still stare. The important thing to consider is whether you want this kind of attention from people other than just your man.

What kind of man likes this look?

The non-committal man who is only after a hookup, a fling, or a side chick.

If a woman is dressed slutty and has lots of skin on display, a man’s brain will automatically default to sex. He may even judge you and think you’re too open and easy.

Sure, this attire might get his immediate attention, but it won’t necessarily inspire respect and a deep emotional connection from him. He is more likely to think of you as a hookup rather than a long-term prospect.

Closing Thoughts

While we aren’t responsible for other people’s choices, we can use our clothing to indicate what kinds of behavior we welcome or will tolerate.

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